Difficult Decisions

Symptoms

• You may be facing some difficult decisions involving relocation, career, relationship or family.
• It may be that no matter how much you think about it or talk to others, the path is not clear.
• You may be having trouble weighing up the pros and cons for each of the alternatives.
• It may be that there is a gain and loss with each direction, making it difficult to chose.
• This may be making you very stressed, worried, effecting your sleep, appetite, work or relationship.
• You may have a deadline to decide upon, thus putting more pressure on you to make an impossible choice.
• You may feel stuck, frozen or afraid to make the wrong move.
• You may be very confused and unclear.

Remedies

• With some exploration of your situation, life stage, recent events and family, it is possible to understand the cause of your confusion, which may start to bring some clarity.
• With some therapeutic counselling, it is possible to tease out varying contributing factors to the confusion to bring more understanding.
• Utilising modalities like sand play therapy, art and expressive therapy, symbol work, working with parts and dream work it is possible to access the unconscious mind and other ways of knowing, which can bring more clarity.
• We may engage with traditional, modern or personal myth, metaphor and story, where it is possible to gain more awareness of inner conflicts and operating forces to bring understanding, and a clearer direction.

With some exploration of the varying contributing factors, it is possible to arrive at your decision with confidence and clarity.